While our dogs are born with all sorts of natural canine inclinations โ like searching out food, investigating scents, romping with friends โ โlisten to words from humansโ is not part of their default program. Thatโs one they have to learn, from us. With the right kind of teaching, responding to your cues will become a dogโs go-to choice because it is the most reliable route to the things he wants.
Sometimes folks contact me saying their dog seems to be difficult to train. Then I show up and find that โ with the best of intentions โ theyโre โcommandingโ their confused dog to DOWN! and LEAVE IT! in a big, scary voice. Rather than learning, the dog is intimidated and shuts down.
While old-fashioned dog training was driven by that kind of voice and a forceful โdo it or elseโ approach, today we know that a more positive teaching style works better in the long run. To reflect that shift, WDJ along with much of the industry now uses the term โcueโ rather than โcommand.โ A cue is a signal to your dog that she has an opportunity to earn something she wants with the right response.
Teach Cues in This Order
Generally, the easiest way to begin teaching behaviors is by using a food lure. Hereโs what that looks like. (Note that this stuff seems awfully complicated when itโs written out, but itโs really not.)
- START WITH NO CUE. Folks always want to start by saying the cue word, but if you keep repeating a word thatโs currently meaningless to your dog, she might end up associating it with the wrong thing. (โOh, I guess โsitโ must mean that kitty cat who just walked by.โ)
- USE A LURE. Lure your dogโs body into position with a nugget of food that you keep just in front of his nose. Move s-l-o-w-l-y so the dogโs body can easily follow. (The most common mistakes are keeping food too far from the nose and/or moving it too quickly.) The moment the dogโs body is in the right spot, create a marker sound (more on that next) and pop the treat into your dogโs mouth.
- ADD THE VERBAL CUE. Once you can reliably lure the behavior, you can start saying the cue word as you do that. Now, the dog links that correct body position with the appropriate cue word.
- CHANGE THE LURE TO A HAND SIGNAL. Once this is all going swimmingly โ your pup is offering that behavior about four out of five times โ give the verbal cue as you mimic the luring motion with an empty directing hand. Ideally pup performs exactly as he has been, and you deliver that reward just as quickly, except from the other hand. The dog learns that following an empty hand works just as well. Now youโre using a hand signal.
- MAKE THE HAND SIGNAL SMALLER. As the dog catches on, the hand signal that began as a replica of the luring motion becomes smaller and smaller. For example, where you previously used a dramatic finger moving all the way to the ground to signify a down, you can now just do a quick point.
- DROP THE HAND SIGNAL. Sometimes people tell me in a very impressed tone that their brother-in-lawโs dog follows hand signals without him saying anything! I donโt want to break the spell, so I keep it to myself that yeah, thatโs easier. Dogs naturally pay attention to body language; itโs much harder to teach them to respond to our verbal language.
To do that, once we have a very minimized hand signal, we use timing to remove it entirely. We say the cue, and rather than immediately giving the hand signal, we wait a second to see if pup processes what weโve just asked. No? Then give that signal.
Try again, with that little delay between the verbal cue and the hand signal. One of these times, your pup is going to do the thing you asked with no extra help from your body language. (Now go brag to your brother-in-law!)
Remember that what youโre really teaching at first is the whole concept of training. Once your dog gets the idea that this is a fun new game where youโll be guiding her into doing things โ and she gets prizes when she gets it right โ sheโll be all in.
Hereโs my first-week list of (usually) easy-to-learn things:
- Name = Dog makes eye contact with human
- Sit = Dogโs bum touches floor
- Touch = Dogโs nose touches hand
- Find It = Dog searches floor for kibble
- Come! = Dog zooms to human for amazing treat
I encourage folks to spend a week getting those behaviors nice and solid, but it turns out thatโs a big ask because humans are always in a rush. We all want to show off a 20-foot โstayโ and a โleave itโ in front of a mouth-watering bone!
Try to resist hurrying. Letโs show our dogs that itโs easy for things to work out well for them here on Planet Human. Let your dog feel like a superstar at the first five cues before you move onto the next tier of challenges.
Name = Dog makes eye contact with human Sit = Dogโs bum touches floor Touch = Dogโs nose touches hand Find It = Dog searches floor for kibble Come! = Dog zooms to human for amazing treat I encourage folks to spend a week getting those behaviors nice and solid, but it turns out thatโs a big ask because humans are always in a rush. We all want to show off a 20-foot โstayโ and a โleave itโ in front of a mouth-watering bone! Try to resist hurrying. Letโs show our dogs that itโs easy for things to work out well for them here on Planet Human. Let your dog feel like a superstar at the first five cues before you move onto the next tier of challenges.
The Marker: Click Or โYesss!โ
If youโve ever tried to learn something that feels very foreign to you โ and you really had no idea if you were getting it or not โ youโll appreciate the beauty of whatโs become known as โclicker training.โ This is where you use a clear, concise sound to mark the exact moment your dog got it right.
The concept came from marine mammal training, where behaviorists used whistles to tell mid-air dolphins, โYES! That higher jump is exactly what we were looking for, and as soon as you swim to the side youโll get a fish.โ That whistle turned into a clicker for the dog world, and decades later, the Clicker Expo is the largest dog-training gathering in the world. Why? Because using a marker speeds learning.
Mind you, most of my beginning clients donโt love using the clicker, and I get it. We need a hand for the leash, a hand for the hand signal, a hand for dispensing treats, and now a hand for the clicker? Itโs a challenge, and I donโt want that physical awkwardness to get in the way of a love of training, so I start with a different but almost as effective marker: the word โYesss!โ delivered in such a way that it is very distinct, clipped, and unmistakable.
Your mission is to learn to deliver that marker with perfect timing. Do it the very second your dogโs bum hits the floor in a โsit,โ or nose bumps your hand in a โtouch.โ A treat always follows the marker. Soon enough, your pup is loving the sound of that marker, because itโs become a predictor of the reinforcer (the treat). At that point, the โYesss!โ has become whatโs called a โconditioned reinforcerโ and now carries power of its own. Now you can make your dog feel amazing the second he gets something right and hears that sound.
In contrast, if you didnโt mark that moment, you might be fumbling in your treat bag for a reward and by the time you deliver it (the moment the dog will remember) heโs no longer in that great sit.
Itโs worth working on the timing of this; youโll need to practice. I have a trainer friend who has his clients practice clicking (or saying โYesss!โ) the moment he bounces a tennis ball. You know what that teaches them? This is indeed something that needs practice! So practice your marker, and once you are great at giving instantaneous feedback, watch your dog suddenly seem like a genius.
For me, the marker technique is critical when Iโm teaching something new, and I will drop the click or the โYesss!โ once the behavior is fluent. The point of the marker is to clarify exactly whatโs being asked, and that kind of precision is no longer needed once the dog knows.
Moving to Intermittent Reinforcement
One of the big misconceptions about rewards-based positive reinforcement training is that you canโt ask your dog to do anything unless you have a cookie in your hand. That would be a legitimate gripe, if it were true!
But itโs not.
Once a pup is reliably succeeding at a certain cue, itโs important to move to something called โintermittent reinforcement,โ which essentially means thereโs no longer a treat every time . . . but thereโs one often enough to keep your dog playing the lottery.
This is a critical step in training that first-timers sometimes miss. Folks get stuck in the mindset of Class #1 in Puppy 101, where in fact we give treats out with abandon, for every little look, touch, sit, and spin! In that earliest of phases we are seeking to build the strong โahaโ moment where the pup deeply internalizes the idea that listening for a cue and responding with a behavior is the surest way to get stuff that makes them happy.
Once that light bulb has gone on, however, itโs time to move to the next big idea, which is essentially the lottery concept: You gotta play to win! We want to build into our pups the understanding that just because they didnโt get rewarded for one particular โdownโ it doesnโt mean the whole system is no longer in operation. It just means you have to keep trying and one of these times thereโll be a reward. Slowing the faucet builds resilience and turns your pup into one who will keep trying. He experiences an initial no-cookie moment, and comes out the other side to find . . . an eventual cookie!
I find the easiest way into this transition is to start asking for two-fers and three-fers. A puppy in her first training class gets a click and a treat for a sit, and right after that, a click and a treat for a touch. A week later, when the pup is now reliably performing both of those cues in class, we move into a two-fer: We ask for a sit and immediately after that ask for a touch. Pup gets a click and a treat after the second behavior. Or after the third behavior in a touch-spin-sit three-fer.
โAck!โ youโre thinking! โNo click after that first behavior? But will my pup think sheโs suddenly doing it wrong?โ I promise if you group those cues together closely enough your pup wonโt have time to be disturbed about that. However, this is where a new sound, an informative marker, could come in handy. You can use a quick โgood,โ or โmm-hmmโ to confirm your pup did something right. It doesnโt promise a treat, but it gives affirmation.
Moving to intermittent reinforcement has the counterintuitive effect of making dogs more focused rather than less. When the faucet turns off a bit the learner will try a little harder to make it turn back on: more intense eye contact, a straighter sit, a quicker down. Essentially: โHuh. No treat? Let me try that again.โ
At various points in your life with your dog, youโll be at different reward schedules for different cues. Very quickly, youโll be able to move to an intermittent schedule for a handful of the cues that are easiest for your pup. But itโs typical that you might be struggling with, say, โdownโ โ so pup gets a click and a treat every single time those elbows hit the ground. Why? Because clear, consistent reinforcement of a behavior builds that behavior. Once itโs easy for your pup, thereโs no longer a need to provide that bright neon sign.
When Can You Stop Giving Treats?
There are three factors that can either increase or decrease the difficulty of the behavior you are teaching your dog. Trainers often call them the three Dโs: Distance, Duration, and Distraction.
If your dog seems to be having trouble learning something, ponder whether you can make one of the three Dโs easier. Did you throw the treat too far away when you tried โFind Itโ? (Reduce the distance!) When you asked for a stay, did you wait so long to reward that your dog gave up? (Reduce the duration!) Were you surprised that your dog didnโt offer her usually easy sit when the neighbors were over? (Reduce the distractions!)
If you scale back your Dโs, youโll likely get to a place where your pup can more easily succeed. Start there, and build the skill.
On the other hand, if you are getting a little bored and think you have nothing left to teach, think about increasing one or more of the three Dโs. Thereโs always a way to make a cue/behavior more challenging:
- Try giving your dog a cue to sit when heโs on the far side of the room, or 50 feet ahead of you on a trail (increasing the distance).
- Ask your dog to hold his down/stay for the length of your weekly call with a relative or while you answer an email or two (increasing duration).
- Try giving your dog a cue while youโre lying down or doing jumping jacks (increasing distractions).
Itโs nice to have a dog who always sits when you give her the cue while standing in front of her in the kitchen where you always train. But itโs far more helpful for your life (not to mention more interesting and fun) if you โproofโ that behavior by gradually varying the 3 Dโs. Imagine how cool it would be if your pup would easily listen in the middle of a crowded barbeque as you yelled โStay!โ from across the yard when a guest mistakenly left a gate wide open.
Using rewards-based, relationship-building methods isnโt brain surgery, but itโs also not as easy as you might think. Investing a little time in refining your technique will save you (and your dog) lots of frustration.
Inevitably, this question arises: โSo when can we stop with the treats altogether?โ It is, in a certain sense, a logical question. After all, if weโre scaling back to intermittent reinforcement, it seems weโre heading in the direction of zero.
Ah, but we are not.
We often ask dogs to do things โ for our own convenience โ that:
- They would not do on their own.
- Are not intrinsically rewarding to them.
- Are often, in fact, against their natural instincts and desires.
The science of learning theory says that none of us does anything for very long unless it is somehow reinforcing/rewarding/in our own best interest. Despite Lassie and the mountains of dog myths in the back of our collective mind, that is true for dogs as well.
A promise of a little morsel of food every now and then is not too much to ask to get our dogs โ the puppies weโve kidnapped from their own culture โ to want to do the weird stuff thatโs prized in our culture. Right?
So, nope. Thereโs never a day when we stop rewarding. As time goes on, youโll find that it becomes second nature to incorporate powerful real-life rewards into your daily routine with your dog; for example, when the nice โsitโ earns an open car door and a promise of adventure, rather than a cookie. Those, along with warm praise, may become your primary way of rewarding your dog once heโs learned the basics. But do the food rewards ever come to an end? No.
And honestly, as my dear old dogs have aged and moved onto the heavenly branch of our pack, Iโm happy for every sweet moment where I gave them a dried liver cube just for that cute little spin they had learned long ago.